2-yr-old rescue, 3 weeks home. Loves her bed, calm in the house, leashes up fine. The crate? Sees it and goes into a full panic. Salivating, scratching, whining for hours. I’ve tried treats in the crate, feeding meals in it, leaving it open during the day — she won’t even step inside voluntarily.
I’m needing to crate-train her because she has separation anxiety when I’m gone (chewing furniture, accidents) and I can’t leave her loose. The crate seems to make it worse though.
Anyone broken through this? Or is this a “don’t force it” situation?
Stop with the crate. I know it feels like the answer but for some rescues it isn't. A few things to know:
Confinement aversion in rescue dogs is well-documented — previous trauma in crates, kennels, or shelter runs creates a strong aversive association that no amount of positive crate training will overcome quickly. Forcing a panicked dog into a crate worsens the underlying anxiety and risks injury (broken teeth, torn nails, self-injury during escape attempts).
Better-evidence alternatives for your situation:
- Confinement to a small dog-proofed room — a laundry room or bathroom with a baby gate. Less aversive than a crate, contains chewing damage to one area.
- Treat the separation anxiety directly, not the symptom. The chewing and accidents are signs the dog is in panic. Crating doesn’t solve the panic — it just contains it. Working with a separation anxiety specialist (Malena DeMartini’s program is the gold-standard protocol; many certified trainers use it) is the route to actual resolution. Expect 3-6 months of structured work.
- Pharmacological support during the early phase. Trazodone (situational) or fluoxetine (daily) can be discussed with your vet. These are well-tolerated and significantly improve the success rate of behavior modification. They’re not lifetime sentences — many dogs taper off after the behavior is solidified.
- Doggy daycare or pet sitter for the days you can’t be home, while you do the separation work. Continuing to leave her alone in a state of panic actively rehearses the anxiety.
One more thing: 3 weeks home is the “honeymoon’s ending” phase — behaviors often emerge or worsen between weeks 2-8 as the dog feels safe enough to express what they were suppressing. This is normal and not a sign you've made a mistake.
Adding to this — I forced crating with my rescue for 6 months. She broke 2 incisors trying to escape. Best thing I did was switch to an x-pen + a dog-proofed room. The chewing didn’t stop until I treated the underlying SA (fluoxetine + Malena DeMartini protocol), about 14 months total. But the breakage stopped immediately. Don’t make the same mistake I did.













